If there's one thing we evangelicals are good at creating, it's a backlash. That's not a bad thing—in fact, resisting and challenging the troubling dimensions of mainstream culture is what we are supposed to do.
I assume you know right and wrong when it comes to sins such as lying, stealing, and killing. So why would anyone want to be in a friendationship? Why would anyone want to be in a relationship whether friend or romantic without knowing where you stand and where you are going? I was so amazed at how many people are in these relationships. So many singles are afraid to take the next step in their relationship.You are either just friends or dating for the purpose of seeking marriage.Exclusivity and intentionality are ancient rituals, things of the past, and misplaced hopes. It’s not that this new line of thinking is necessarily untrue today, or that it’s not the current and corrupt trend of our culture. One of our most precious pursuits, that of a lifelong partner for all of life, is tragically being relegated to tweets, texts, and snaps, to ambiguous flirtation and fooling around. Therefore, only he can prescribe the purpose, parameters, and means of our marriages.If fullness of life could be found in sexual stimulation, or if it was just a matter of making babies, the “forget formality and just have sex” approach might temporarily satisfy cravings and cause enough conception.